Been with the same girl for six years, we have a 3 year old son (the light of my life). We've had some communication problems that slowly led to us not living together anymore (she at her parents, me in the 3 bedroom house I bought for us). My son lives with her at her parents. She basically fell out of love with me 6 months ago. I bought my house last August and have lived by myself since. Holding onto the hope that perhaps things would get better. Last night I sat her down and made her tell me how she felt. She hasn't loved me for some time, but was afraid that if she broke up with me I wouldn't be nice to her anymore. So she basically left me to dangle in the wind for a long time, me trying to mend things and her knowing she didn't love me. Luckily for me all the pain of breaking up has been spread over months. She told me she didn't love me anymore last night, and she didn't see anyway that we'd get back together. We broke up on good ground, agreed to be friends and we'll still go out to chuck e cheese and ball games with our son. The last thing I wanted was to break up our family, but essentially she decided she didn't love me anymore, I spent 9 months trying to change her mind, until it became too unhealthy for me to continue.
My friends are bringing me to the "gentleman's club" tonight.
