I have already replaced the starter it fired up 2 times and then never started again. untill I found out how to hot wire it.

So there should be some resistance with the diode?

I ran the ohms meter again and got no reading. could the diode be bad also how do you get the fuse box in the engine bay out to get a look at the this diode?
the alarm side of the relay wire #1 I get 11-12 volts the same as I get out of my svt so it is not the problem.