I'd call the guy up and tell him he can keep the money, but if he messes with your "future wife" then you are going to have a big problem. If anybody messed with my wife I'd kill them. Simple as that. I think most guys respect that and he'll leave her alone. If not it's up to you, but I think you know what I'd do...

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