I ordered an extra 500 3mm and 400 5mm, so I could sell them on ebay, but I haven't got around to it yet. But, if you guys need extra i have them.
Here is the list starting from the rear of the car
back door window switches, use 3mm
Front door window and lock switches use 3mm
pre98 front door behind door handle (interior of door), use 5mm
pre98 fog light indicator use 3mm or 5mm
all the items on your dash can be used with 3mm or 5mm leds, for the contour part on post98 without clock use 5mm, for the defroster button,
pre98 use 1 3mm, and 1 5mm, 5mm for the defroster part, and 3mm for the actuall button, keep or remove the orange piece,
pre98 clock, use 1-3 5mm or 3mm, I used one, and sanded the end off and stuck a hole punch on the end of it with some glue, it made it not have a dot in the middle of the clock, worked great. If I missed any, send me an IM.