i don't know if I want to get into this but here goes
I have seen two types of people at college, those who are reponcible and those who go off the deep end. Even with my friends the one who went off the deep end are those who have very controling parents.
Well my parents were never controling of me but they are very trusting. I think it comes down to they trust they raised me well and I can make intelegent decisions, and I do. And with all the crap I have gone through resently I have gone to them and they have been helpful to me.
I don't know the situation but my impression is matt is a good kid with his head on straight. Give him some space to live and experience. I would let him show you that he was raised well and is responcible.
This is a great group of caring people, I know that no one means any harm. And since this is a fairly specific sight I din't think it atracts many random people from the net.
and on my last note, if anyone wants to throw away what I have said becasue I am only 21 then go ahead, what do I know right? It seems to make alot of sense to me
