OK, I did the above "test" and the wipers worked, no defrost indicator light, interior lights and seat belt light came on.

No power to termial #2 at the relay, 12Vs at #3.

I stumbled upon a 95 Contour with defrost at the local salvage yard so I tried that timer module... It doesn't work either. I guess it could be bad too??? Or is it the switch? Or do I have a bad connection somewhere?

Thanks for your help, Matt.