teh grades of the bolts only indicate their grade of heat treat. The higher the grade the higher the tinsle strength of the bolt. Due to the high operating temperature of exhaust the heat treat qualities would likely be diminished due to the constant heat/cool cycles.

I'd just buy the lesser expensive of the bolts that fits. A grade 5 will be fine.

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