Its a great car, I have a 1998 LX V6. It under the warranty, just let them fix it until its out. Then dump it, if you must. I have almost 94k miles and mine haven't had half the problems you have had.
Other than recalls, I have done only a IMRC part repair. Well, also a lot of junk in the intake. Nothing $6 of Fuel injector cleaner couldn't fix.
