I need to stay out of Off Topic, this **** is too involved for me.
NorMich99SE, I wasn't "flaming" you, I was just asking. Like you said, I don't know you, and while every 16 year old girl I know is too young mentally for a 23 year old, I don't know your girlfriend either.
trek 4500, I was kinda' joking about the STD thing, as others said, there are tons of great ladies in college, but you don't need to know that right now anyway. And stay sober since you have already, college isn't the time to start drinking, it's kind of like going into the major leagues straight from T-ball. I know too many people who were str8 thru HS, went to some big college and got in with the kids who can afford (or planned on) partying as long as their funds allow them to enroll. Losing a year of college and entering AA is not what these people needed.