Funny I was just talking about this topic with another guy this weekend. Kind of messed up how nice guys need to be the opposite to get girls. I can only be my nice guy self so that might be part of my problem. I'm not going to want or be attracted to a girl that's going to be attracted to an ass anyway. Nice guys DO NOT finish last! You are simply not meeting the right person for you. It's harder but it will be the best in the long run and the relationship will be healthy.