Originally posted by 99blacksesport:
This is in off topic, no problems there... Thanks Wthermans for that link... Anyways, what brought all this up is that I am talking to two girls right now; one that I am being very nice to, and the other (who is a bit well, umm, promiscuous) I treat her like to total crap. But while I am treating this one like crap, she gives me lines like "I dont know why I talk to you, theres just something that draws me to you," and that she cant wait to meet me when I get back to school. Then she will complain to me that she cant get a nice guy to like her. WTF?! Can anyone really be this dumb???
Now my problem is that I want the one I am treating nicely to like me, because she is very cool and I am really kinda liking her. But now I am worried that my treating her nicely will make her not want me. Any advice from the guys on CEG? What about the ladies of CEG, what do they think? Thanks for the help guys/girls!! -Nick
dude, seriously, don't play those games!
be yourself and don't play "good guy bad guy" games just to see if you can win the girls over (like that guy did on the website).
that's so wrong.
how many times do you hear guys complain about chicks and the head games they play (cuz they do!)? if you want a girl that doesn't play headgames, I suggest you yourself do not play headgames either.
the best advice anyone could ever give (and someone always gives it) is to BE YOURSELF.
if she doesn't like who you are, then she's not for you.
you don't want a one sided relationship where you like her tons but she only likes you a little.
don't be someone you're not just to bait the girl.
that's wrong wrong wrong!
