Let's see, Nice guys finish last, Nice guys finish last oh and Nice guys finish last.
With that said I think it is entirely possible to find a nice girl, if you are a nice guy, but then again it's also possible to win the lottery.
I suppose I am a bit of a pessimist to it all, but I have seen the results so many times. I suppose somehow by a guy going up to talk to her (although being a ass in the process) the jerk gets points for being confident and shizzle like that. The nice guys simply don't get noticed, and if they do it's as a friend.
There are tons of reasons why these things happen, although ultimately it's probably a combination of things.
I see the deacon effect all the time, this is especially prevelant in bars and clubs. I think I should cut myself off before I get too rude
-Pete
(Perpetually bitter)
