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It's not always true that "hoes" wouldn't really last long. It all depends on the people involved in the relationship. There are a few people i know who got it on, during a one night stand kinda thing, but ended up gettin married as stated earlier. Sometimes it's in the heat of things too u know, where it could just happen because everything just happened. But yeah, there are those hoes that makes everything pretty crappy. Sometimes a person could change a hoe into a lover. I manaaged to do that, but i ended up breaking up with her because she wasn't the person i really saw myself with. (too quiet, etc.. etc..) Anyways, this is just my .02

Ren

This should be the number 1 rule.

I don't understand your logic at all.. Just because you sleep with the girl on the first date doesn't make her a hoe. The chemistry could just be so perfect that it happens. I've seen more than a few cases like this that ended up in long term relationships, or even marriage.

I think it depends on what you two are looking for also. The 'relationship' that I am in now, we have both been good, *nothing* has happened, its more friends then anything. Thats still cool though.

The relationship before this one, we were friends first. Then we became best friends, then lovers (or so I thought ), then we broke up. That was four months of slowly moving from friends to lovers. It had a lot more meaning when we did the horizontal tango. Though when we broke up, I found that I can be VERY revengeful when I am cheated on (especially with a woman!). Cars were getting towed, locks changed, etc. It was fun.

The relationship before that we waited all of five days. It was nightly after that, for all of four more weeks. Those was a very cool month though. That one started like it ended, quickly.

My current relationship we are taking our time. I believe that both of us have the same goal, but we are moving SO SLOWLY, its almost driving me insane. I think that the end result will be something that we both will be very happy with.

I totally disagree that getting it on early in the relationship is a bad thing. I'd rather be with a girl who was comfortable with her sexuality instead of playing "I'm gonna make you wait" headgames.

im a ho

lol i feel you on that. although i must admit i prefer the wise female that guards her treasure and doesn't give it up to any jackass on a one night stand or a short lived relationship. Seriously, who are you going to respect more if you're considering a girl for marriage: The one who's had 23 one night stands with the flavor of the month or the girl who's kept that number down and hardly strayed from sex outside of serious relationships?

You want the one with low numbers, but still likes you enough to give it up early (maybe not the first night... more like 2nd or 3rd )

Also, if you wait too long, you will end up in the dreaded "Friend Zone." That can be a hard place to get out of.

Too bad there aren't more women here. They'd say how the double standard makes it cool for guys to sleep around while they are hoes if they do so.

To me, it's one thing if a woman goes out every night with the specific intent of getting laid, and quite another if she sleeps with a different person every few weeks after going out on a date or two with them.

My logic is how can I trust you?? It only took the first night to have sex. In my current relationship I waited for 6 months to have sex. I wanted to jump her bones bad, but I said nah. I want to get to know the person. When you get the sweet spot early it is pretty damn hard trying to stay focused trying to know her, because you already got what you really wanted. Follow me?

-Antonio