Originally posted by TheBoxsterGuy:
Maybe, but my old roomate, as well as alot of people I went to college with, were virgins until they got married. All it did was make them get married faster, because they were in such a rush to have sex. 10 years from now, I know my old roomate will be divorced and miserable. Or stuck in a relationship, wondering what sex with other women is like.
Exactly my point!
Kinky/rough/crazy etc., doesn't mean it's the best sex you've had/will have. It's hard to describe, but people will know when I say that it is about how they make you feel during the act. It's more than a physical thing it's a mental and emotional thing that you are VERY aware of at the time.
It's knowing what is good and what isn't from past experiences that makes you appreciate what you have.
After all don't we all live our lives learning from experiences and mistakes? If we are to throw that out when it comes to sex - which is a basis for all relationships, then we are just asking for trouble and innevitasble heartache.
I am not saying fo people to go out and screw as many people as possible, that's dumb. My opinion is that you cannot have a real grown-up intimate relationship with some one without sex. And if you think that you know and love someone without knowing that part of them, then you are kidding yourself.
You may think it to be shallow that I sound like a base a lot of my feeling and perceptions on some one, from sex, but trust me. If they don't "do it" for you in the sack, then you won't last as a couple.
Think about that and tell me that I am wrong!
Mind you regardless of what you think I know what is important for me.
The last thing I want you guys to experience is the heartbreak, pain, stress and suffering of a divorce.
