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Originally posted by cpurser:
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Originally posted by Keith W:
[b]No sex before marraige! We just had our 24th anniversary, May 9th, we were both virgins. No regrets!
My opinion is definitely in the minority here, and I am sure this post will receive its share of flames, but here we go:

Several of my friends waited 'till they were married, and they are the happiest couples I know. If you wait till you are married, you are forced to get to know the real person while you are dating. Sex makes the relationship 100x more complicated than it needs to be. Trust me, if you truely love the girl, then the sex will take care of itself. All the talk about "making sure the chemistry is there" is a bunch crap, and is nothing but an excuse.

And, fyi, I did not have the willpower to wait until I was married. I am very happily married now, but I know it would be even better if we would have waited.[/b]
Maybe, but my old roomate, as well as alot of people I went to college with, were virgins until they got married. All it did was make them get married faster, because they were in such a rush to have sex. 10 years from now, I know my old roomate will be divorced and miserable. Or stuck in a relationship, wondering what sex with other women is like.