Originally posted by ProudSVT:
Maybe it's the way I do relationships, but in all my good relationships the girl and I slept together within the first few dates. Maybe because my life is very chaotic & complex so I pickup on girls with simaliar experiences, but I take my time and focus with her in the sack, so the relationship is born.
I think the older you get, the more true this becomes.. People's clocks are ticking, and you don't want to waste 6 months to find out the girl's lousy in bed - Because let's face it, she can be the nicest girl in the world, but if he's a dead fish in the sack, I don't want to be with her for the next 50 years of my life.
When you're younger, you think nothing of waiting 3-6 months to close the deal. "You're not just in it for the sex", yet that's what you're looking forward to. I dunno, sounds like a contradiction to me.
Don't get me wrong, I waited a few months with my current g/f, but that's only because she wanted to take things slow. But I'm not going to look at a girl differently if I hit it in the first few dates - If anything, it shows me that she's comfortable with her sexuality, and that's a good thing in my book.
