Wait a minute, now....
Why, if a guy and a girl sleep together on the first date, is SHE a hoe? Why aren't you guys considered "EASY", as well? :rolleyes: That is just plain wrong!
Look... don't rush it.. don't force it on her, and don't let her force it on you.. Everyone would like to tell you their perfect idea of "when" is right, but to be honest.. nobody can answer that, but yourself.
It all depends on how well you two click... I have been in a relationship where we didn't kiss for months, and hadn't slept together for the first YEAR AND A HALF... Which blows that theory of all easy girls being headcases, because she wasn't "easy" and she WAS a headcase..
I have also been in a relationship where we flirted, HEAVILY, but weren't actually "going out", at all.. and things fell in to place, and we slept together very quickly.... I am the happiest with HER...
So... if it is natural, it will happen..
To answer your question..
When is the appropriate length of time to have sex with someone you are dating?
When you have sex with someone you are dating.
(as long as neither of you rushed it, and both of you wanted it...)
Just be true to yourself, and to her, and you will get all that you ask for, from your relationship..
HTH
Ray
