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Originally posted by Antonio Wright:
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Originally posted by Antonio Wright:
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Originally posted by PA 3L SVT:
Not necessarily true - I know at least two married couples that got it on after their first date. Heh, I was wearing a tux at both weddings now that I think of it. It's not when the sexual relationship starts, it's how the couple's complete relationship grows (or fails to grow) after then that matters.
Well that may be the case, but that relationship is going to be harder to grow because you ****ed on the first night.[/b]
I don't understand your logic at all.. Just because you sleep with the girl on the first date doesn't make her a hoe. The chemistry could just be so perfect that it happens. I've seen more than a few cases like this that ended up in long term relationships, or even marriage.[/b]
My logic is how can I trust you?? It only took the first night to have sex. In my current relationship I waited for 6 months to have sex. I wanted to jump her bones bad, but I said nah. I want to get to know the person. When you get the sweet spot early it is pretty damn hard trying to stay focused trying to know her, because you already got what you really wanted. Follow me?

-Antonio
Yeap!! If she gives it up the first night, makes you wonder later if she has done it with God knows how many guys and then all these thoughts of "does she have any STDs, can she have HIV" and you keep piling up these thoughts and that's when the "relationship" goes down the toilet!!

jjh
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