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Talk to her. If you are both ready, it'll happen. If you can't talk to her about it, you aren't ready, so don't even worry if she is.
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Antonio gave excellent advice on this issue.
Move only if there is a real advantage to be gained...when you move, fall like a thunderbolt. -Sun Tzu, The Art of War '98 SVT E0 Superchip Y-pipe KKM filter custom 2.5 cat back exhaust UDP linux fish
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There's something here that none of you guys are realizing:
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.
You can't turn around and call a woman a "Ho" because she has sex with you the first time you meet her. What does that make you? I'm sure that if you're calling a woman a "Ho" after sleeping with her the first night, you weren't complaining at all, so why the need to give that kind of stereotype? It seems to me that if a woman has sex with 5 people, she's a "slut" but if a man has sex with 5 women, he's a hero. If you're careful, use protection, and if you enjoy it, then why should you be ashamed, and why should you bring that stigma on a woman?
I challenge any of you men to tell a woman that she's a "Ho" if you sleep with a girl the first time you meet her. See how much she agrees with you, I doubt it'll be a pleasant conversation!
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do it once, and if you don't feel like doing it anymore, stop! (I betcha don't stop  )
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Originally posted by Rynn:
There's something here that none of you guys are realizing: Hey, you must not have read my post! 
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Originally posted by Rynn:
There's something here that none of you guys are realizing:
IT TAKES TWO TO TANGO.
You can't turn around and call a woman a "Ho" because she has sex with you the first time you meet her. What does that make you? I'm sure that if you're calling a woman a "Ho" after sleeping with her the first night, you weren't complaining at all, so why the need to give that kind of stereotype? It seems to me that if a woman has sex with 5 people, she's a "slut" but if a man has sex with 5 women, he's a hero. If you're careful, use protection, and if you enjoy it, then why should you be ashamed, and why should you bring that stigma on a woman?
I challenge any of you men to tell a woman that she's a "Ho" if you sleep with a girl the first time you meet her. See how much she agrees with you, I doubt it'll be a pleasant conversation! Are you done? I think we all agree with that. So get off your "hero" speech and shut up. Men and women can be ho's. Personally this convo is not about who is a ho or not. It is about if he should **** on the first night and if a relationship can blossom after that. I say no... other think different. No where does your ho speech fit in??? No where. :rolleyes: -Antonio
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Just get your dick wet already, its obvious you need to... :rolleyes:
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DNewman, what kind of sweet nothings did you whisper to Honkey's mom to get her to shell out the clam? :p
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Originally posted by I-Dom-In-8: Good luck & don't forget to suit up this is rule #1. wait and work on the relationship then move on and be intimate with him/her. Goodluck Later
Red '97 GL Sport MTX IVELISE ================================== "Let every nation know, whether it wishes us well or ill, that we shall pay any price, bear any burden, meet any hardship, support any friend, oppose any foe to assure the survival and success of liberty." John F. Kennedy
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Something else to ponder... If you are deep into a relationship emotionally (read: "in love") and you don't get physical for a long time, that can lead to a BIG problem: if one of you doesn't like how it is working out in the bedroom, it makes it all that much harder to move on. Most guys have had one of those girls who refuses to do it with the lights on, or won't provide helmet shines, or is so completely ashamed of her body that she needs constant reassurance, or otherwise sucks (not literally) in bed - and that my friend is a big PITA. Who needs the hassle?!? Now if these things are not important to you, God bless you! But if they are, I can tell you that if the relationship isn't mutually rewarding sexually, then it is not likely to be rewarding period. How many happily married, couples in modern times have rotten sex lives together? Now the sooner you guys fool around, the sooner you can tell if you guys are down for it. Maybe if you know about how she is in bed, or what she likes, that is a plus. In the meantime, you can have some interesting, open chats about sex with her. This shows her you are comfortable in talking about sex in a mature manner, and that you have a reasonable amount of self-confidence. Plus, if you hit it you'll know what she likes in bed, and that will lead to lots of BJs and she may even help you clean your Contour And remember life isn't a bawchicabaw movie so just take it as it comes and at a speed that feels right for you. Don't let anyone tell you what to do...!
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