Originally posted by frenchblueC2:
just be yourself.
don't overthink every single one of your actions.
If you're not used to holding doors, then don't.
if you're not used to pushing chairs in (I've never had this done to me and would really give you a "you've got 3 heads" look if you attempted it with me), don't push her chair in.
do what feels comfortable.
if you're going to constantly overthink everything and wonder 'what should I be doing/how should I be acting right now' you're not going to be comfortable, relaxed and most of all enjoyable.
I'm not saying belch and scratch your crotch like you do in front of the tv at home either.
the point here is not to bait her by being someone you're not. you'll only disappoint her in the long run.
Oh
SURE... tell him to be himself, then pull the rug out from under him by eliminating the ball scratching and shef complimenting belches. See how women are? :p
EdwardC, the point is "put you best foot forward". Be yourself and as honest as you can. There is no "one size fits all" or "how to" for any woman. By her saying "yes" to your date offer (asuming you asked her) tells you she's interested in you. That's the hardest part. Now, relax and go enjoy yourself.
