She is an English Professor at a large East Coast University. I am on cloud 9 people!

This is my first real date since 1990 (most of this time period was taken up my a terrible marriage). So what's the dating ettiquette these days? Flowers? a bottle of wine? Do guys still open car doors for women? Do I take off my jacket and lay it on a puddle so she won't get he shoes wet. I am clueless.

She is 28 and I am 35 years old.