The name and spelling of the Christian God (Sleeper has it correct, but probably shouldn't have put it here) should be treated with respect. It is rarely used, because it is a sacred word to those who believe.
How old she is, what religion who is, who has custody, and what you think of someone else's beliefs, shouldn't cloud the real issue.
My general opinion on the the government / religion thing is the 5th post down here:
http://www.contour.org/forums/ultimatebb.php?ubb=get_topic;f=38;t=007898
