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I keep thinking that to myself, but I still don't do anyting. I'm just weird, I guess.

But to answer the original post(I forgot to do it in my first reply), I would like to think it's possible to find true love, the problem is finding the person.

Enjoy the sex and use a condom

I knew my now wife less than a month when we got engaged. I most out there will say it's new and such but I couldn't be happier with my life. To each their own but I say go for it and be happy.

How long have you been together?

I knew right a way with Chris (kinda) We were best friends (he wanted more) I got hurt at work & he came over to my place to take care of me. That's when I knew he was the one! I saw how caring & loving he was. Funny thing... he never left after that day & he is still my very best friend!

Well, I'm glad to see there are still a few more guys who believe in Chivalry. Sounds to me like you could very well have a winner, and I know exactly what you're talking about with the way you feel. I've been with my girlfriend for just 10 months now, despite a 7 year age difference and everyone saying it wouldn't last more than 2 mos. We're past the "infatuation" stage where you see no faults, but the love is still there. Like jcboeckel (sp?) said, the feeling changes somewhat, but becomes a deeper feeling, and eventually, a need. While you do need to be ready for anything, you also can't be in a serious relationship without some risk, way I see it, that's why we call it "falling" in love.
As for what some of these guys say, there is some bitterness I'm sure and some sarcasm, but Elky does have a point, nice guys generally finish last, but NOT ALWAYS. Took me 22 years to get a girlfriend, and I think what I got in the end was a wife, Time will tell.

Congrats on the find and I wish you the best of luck.

Not as weird as you may think. I told myself that over and over for years. there is some good advice in this thread, and excellent examples of love gone RIGHT. I know it's hard as he!!, but try and suck up the confidence and ask her, or tell her how you feel or something. (in person, I'm told this is the ONLY way to do it) Like others have said, worst case is she says no and you're back where you started, but now you know where things stand and don't kill yourself wondering about it. My girlfriend and I beat around the bush for nearly a month before I finally broke down and admitted my feelings, somehting I was scared to death to do, but I look back on it now and thank God I did. go for it, you never know what you might miss if you don't......

BTW, I agree, this thread is very sappy and mushy, but oh so theraputic. (sp?)

Just don't count your eggs before they hatch, man.

Whoever said that is still single. Compromise is one of the keys to a relationship. Letting someone walk all over you is not compromise! Compromise is a mutual agreement.

Keep looking man! Don't change who you are just because you haven't found the right woman yet. Be yourself and the girl of your dreams will come along and love you for who you are! The world is full of nice guys, do you think they are all single?

Definatly agree here! Honesty is key! When I was talking about letting the little things go earlier, I was meaning it in a different context.

Sometimes when you have been in a long relationship, you let little things get on your nerves. And you may end up argueing over silly minute things. I have seen this end many relationships, if your both serious you can learn to let these things go. And focus on the more important things.

Talk about everything! Never don't let things go unsaid.

Most definatly!

EXACTLY!!!!

Mike Keitz Great story...I'm happy for you

TOO FUNNY!

I think the saying should be change to "Nice Guys Always finish last" to "NICE GUYS DON"T ALWAYS GET LAID"

If thats what your looking for then by all means be a mean ****er! But trust me women do not want to be treated badly....or without respect! If they do then they have serious issues.

Now I'm not saying be a total wussy, just be yourself!

Anyways great thread!

WOO HOO.. the CEG LIKES ME!!!! lolol
I am glad to see the out-pour of comments, advice, and support.. Things couldn't be better, and I can't wait to see where they go. I know that we "shouldn't" rush things, according to society, but I have always been one to do "whatever feels right". Like you guys said, if it isn't right, then it will still be worth the time we DID have. I always give my all, and I know that she is doing the same. I hope that I will be able to re-post at a later date, and keep you guys filled in on our newest developments (in the future, of course) (Then, again, that depends on the life of the CEG (Viva La CEG) )

I appreciate the connection, and I am glad you guys enjoyed... Therapy is always good! Thanks, again, guys (and girls...)

Ray

You can't turn a ho into a housewife fool!

The trolls and I will bring down this post!! No more happy thoughts here!