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Sorry to hear of your misfortune. I sysmpathize with you, and hope for the best. If she was willing to sacrifice the 5.5 for a new guy, then maybe it was best, anyway> Either way.. I can't stand the people that say "I wasted 3 years of my life on you" or whatever, after they break up. It wasn't a waste... if it were, then why stay 3 years??? It was good, then... and should still be considered "good", when remembering it. Anyway... enjoy the memories, and who knows... if she is the one, maybe things will be worked out..
Best of luck..
Ray
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I agree with Packrat, girls are evil, put them in a blender and make cocktails out of them... or whatever it was he said... 
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mmmm.... girl cocktails.... :p
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i definitly agree with packrat....girls suck (if your lucky, and i must not be) i have been single for about 6 years and as the name states...long dry spell.... i don't care how many chicks say they want the nice guy...they really don't. i am that nice guy, and where does it get me? no where!! chicks really need to figure out what it is they really want and keep it that way, why they gotta be so friggin indecisive? Make up your minds!!! CHICKS SUCK!!!! ....all CEG women excluded form this rant, they all rule, but are all too far away to matter.... 
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Ray enjoy it while it lasts....because like all women, one day she will wake up ad tear out your heart while you're not looking. Then, while you're standing there dying she'll proceed to light it on fire and stomp it out in front of you.
Or she'll just want to be friends....
...And if you do marry her, sign a pre-nup. Otherwise I have one word for you....H A L F
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so - to add some reality...
make sure your commonalities are not blinded by your emotions... meaning, don't just agree with her on things because you don't want her to go away and vice versa...
the little things are what tear people apart slowly, make sure you deal with them early on - just be honest with each other... that is a key in making any relationship work.
honesty builds trust, and trust is the basis for nearly any relationship...
good luck and enjoy this time!!!!
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Congrats Ray! I've got the same thing going on...it's a wonderful feeling! 
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Originally posted by ElKy-8 months and counting: i definitly agree with packrat....girls suck (if your lucky, and i must not be)
i have been single for about 6 years and as the name states...long dry spell....
i don't care how many chicks say they want the nice guy...they really don't. i am that nice guy, and where does it get me? no where!!
chicks really need to figure out what it is they really want and keep it that way, why they gotta be so friggin indecisive? Make up your minds!!!
CHICKS SUCK!!!!
....all CEG women excluded form this rant, they all rule, but are all too far away to matter....
At the risk of sounding really sappy... Ray, true love and finding that one perfect match for you most definately exists. I had it once and I screwed it up, and I've regreted it every day for going on three years. If it feels like it's true ove and she's "the one", and this feels different than it ever has before, than it is. Hold on to it and don't ever let it go. Make it work and work through any bad times. If she's "the one", any problems that may arise are worth working through. In the end, you'll be glad you did...which is far better than not and wishing you did, and regretting it for the rest of your life. Trust me.
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Trust those words of advice I've seen here a bunch of times already:
Girls don't like puppies... they like Rotweilers. It's not about not being nice, but don't let anybody, woman or not, walk all over you and make you compromise things you want in your life. I made many mistakes and let a bunch of life opportunities pass me by for my ex-fiance, and now, I have nothing but the regrets to keep me company. Do you!
Eric aka Chief Slapaho
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