You should have two lists of girls!
Friends:
Options:
Don't mix them! Unless a woman takes the first step to move from friend to option, and I mean more than talk, keep your feelings for her as a friend! Also, after a long relationship she is probably just playing the field. You can get hurt badly when you mix the two. You treat an option by making your interest obvious and when the friend cardd start to get played you move her to the other list and treat her differently or you make yourself less available for a while to seperate you feelings from the situation. I fyou can't seperate your feelings your toast!
-Andy
