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Elky's got it right. Sounds like this girl qualifies as a true *****.
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If you like the girl that much any time with her isn't wasted. But who knows what the hell she is thinking...most of us our guys. I have to applaud you on your bravery, if I found her making out with random guys I'd run away. It's wierd, I'll fight about everything but girls, I'll never "compete" for someone. I figure if they aren't sure who they want then something is not right.
Anyway, I'd let her know how you feel (how much she means to you) and how you'll always be there for her. Which should be and sounds like the truth. If she drops all the "side projects" and falls into your arms, life is good. Any other response, and I wish you luck.
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There was commercial just yesterday (maybe a beer comercial),,,this cool guy is sitting with 3 girls who love him and tell him how they can relax talking to him, and he is together, etc....then the 2 oclock shadow aloof friend says :" I am going home" and doesnt pay attention to the chicks, and they all swoon over him,,,and ask him "Who is he"..all hot and bothered....
He's chaaarging!!!...(add scottish accent)...
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Originally posted by frenchblueC2: she's just rebounding. let her get it out of her system and be glad she didn't use you as the rebound. have been in this situation countless times (although was in denial while it was occuring). when she's through, she'll be ready for a serious relationship, and you'll be there. Yeah, I warned that it was rebound but she kind of blew it off. About me being there, I'm sure I will be, but thats another thing that bothers me, its like she doesn't appreciate me. Like oh if all else fails I guess I have Sean. I don't want to be the latter, but I guess you take what you can get...
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P.S. This is what part of the alphabet would look like if the letters Q and R were omitted...
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Girls dont want a man - they want a thug!
Now a women want real men!
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Girls, women... whatever, they are all evil! Throw eggs at thier houses and when they come out to see what's up, throw rotten cabbage! (no offence to the ladies)
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I'm in the same situation. You should just get the satisfaction of knowing that you're a good friend. You never know, it might pay off later.
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Originally posted by TheGSRGuy: I'm in the same situation. You should just get the satisfaction of knowing that you're a good friend. You never know, it might pay off later. Good point. If it doesn't pay off with her, the people around will notice, and thats got to count for something.
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 You sound like you are more mature than her, maybe you should just wait for her to come to you, you find love when you least expect it.
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I'm in that situation except even though we say that we are best friends, she will sometimes blow me off for someone else. 
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