Zetec Eric,
Like I said before, I'm 27. Not that I'm all old and wise or anything, but I have learned a few things over the years. As far as being a d*ck to a girl, I won't do that. All you have to do is act like you don't care if you see them again or not (even though you might). I think it's human nature to want what you can't have. I go to bars to socialize with my friends (most of them are girls), not to meet women. Just a side benefit if you do. I realize it would be very hard to meet a good girl in a bar, but I guess it's possible. It's just something I like doing. I'm not in a rush to just accept anything that comes along just to have a girlfriend. I guess what I'm saying is: It's easier when you're younger to be single that it is when you get older. At least for me. I didn't care at all to have a girlfriend in high school.