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Sorry but I dont beleive in finding love at the bottom of a glass!

I like mall chicks! Think about it - theyre happy because theyre shopping(no one spends money when theyre mad) and theyre obviously ~trying~ to look good. Plus, all girls gotta go to the mall. Its like clubbing baby seals

The girls at the mall are too stuck up.

i feel for you man. i was in the same boat for a while. i wanted a girlfriend for the longest time (during hs, i'm a senior, graduating now). i finally have one. don't worry about these people who say you don't need one, i know your situation. also, i wouldn't go to bars looking for anything material. you don't always get the greatest people there. i guess i would need to know more about what kind of things you're involved in and where you're at to give you any solid advice, but here's what i can tell you. maybe i just got lucky, but i met my g/f through band. she was in the same concert band as me (same period). i gave her looks all year, but never said anything. then we went on the band trip to myrtle beach, and i danced (grinded) with her at a "club" that the whole band went to. it was awesome, and i started talking to her once we got back. then i started going out with her almost every weekend, and now she's my girlfriend. unfortunately, this didn't happen earlier as i'm going off to college soon. hopefully we can continue it through college, although i'm not sure because it's kinda far away and she's only a freshman in hs. all i can tell you is, i thought i wouldn't even have a g/f before i got out of hs. i think you have to stop worrying about it. just get involved in some things, and scope out the prospects a bit. if she's right for you, you'll know it pretty quickly. also, don't be too obsessive. women lose interest that way. be wild, but not obnoxious. let them know you're there. talk a lot. oh yeah, and i'm a nice guy too. nice guys always get screwed, but nice guys get the nice girls in the long run.

Zetec Eric,

Like I said before, I'm 27. Not that I'm all old and wise or anything, but I have learned a few things over the years. As far as being a d*ck to a girl, I won't do that. All you have to do is act like you don't care if you see them again or not (even though you might). I think it's human nature to want what you can't have. I go to bars to socialize with my friends (most of them are girls), not to meet women. Just a side benefit if you do. I realize it would be very hard to meet a good girl in a bar, but I guess it's possible. It's just something I like doing. I'm not in a rush to just accept anything that comes along just to have a girlfriend. I guess what I'm saying is: It's easier when you're younger to be single that it is when you get older. At least for me. I didn't care at all to have a girlfriend in high school.

Ahh the best kind of girl is the one you pick up on the seedy redlight district of town, preferrably a hairlip or burn victim, take them home and have your way, the last thing their beady little eyes sees is your pillow as it pushes down on their face where you hold it until they are more "co-operative". Yes hold that pillow down just like my mom used to do to me until I behaved...arrgggg. Ohh yess and then a nice little shallow grave somewhere in West Virginia is where our date ends....

R
(Just kidding of course...really.)

Amen to that brotha!

(the kidding part... yes... that will do...)

i always want what i cant have, that's for damn certain.

Talk about a rhetorical question. :rolleyes:

Man...... there's a up and down side to EVERYTHING in this world. There's tons of guys that would love to me single and looking. Thens there guys that are sick and tired of looking and want a GF. I'll tell ya what man..... That little saying about meeting someone when you least expect it. SO TRUE!! I had commitied to myself and masturbation, told myself I didn't need to deal with "females". That was when I was 17 and had already had more than my fair share of crapy love, lust, puppy love, or what have you situations. BUT.... right as I had started to enjoy the single thing... I meet the girl I'm with now. Coming up on 3 years... and looking good!! She's even older than me by two years!!! We just clicked from the word go. No effort was made to make her like me.... I was me, and she liked that....... It'll happen..... Just don't be waiting for it. Just commit to being true to yourself and having fun. Don't worry about all that "playa" crap. In the end.... all they end up with is crabs and a little penile discharge.
I'm picture post crazy..... so I think I'll show you a pic of what I got by not looking!!

I'll bring the camera and the car! All you have to do is sit there and look pretty :p