My final point, because I am tired of listening to this endless sob story of how bad it is when everyone who joins raises their right hand and volunteers .

I think they have a fair pay!

You don't, and others don't but I diasagree.

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No amount of compensations could make up for you missing the birth of your child, I'm not gonna put a price on it and neither is the Govt. It's terrible, but it goes on everyday in the Armed Forces. Very very sad. frown