Originally posted by lunchbox:
Did she cause this ?Some might laugh at this referal to a former post but I think it's worth some thought. As I recall that post was on how gay you are and the higher you scored the more sensitive traits you had (if you are a guy). Now consider Bad Apple's former g/f going into the Navy. I'm not making judgments on women in the Navy. They didn't have any on ships (except hospital ships) when I was in the Navy so I didn't know any. However, people who go into the service are generally looking for adventure and I guarantee some adventure if you're in the Navy and get shipped out to the fleet somewhere. To tie this all together, to me it seems like perhaps their personalities were mismatched. She probably wasn't in the market for a kinder, gentler boy friend but somehow couldn't bring herself to tell him.
Well, that's my two cents. Recommendation? Same as most of the others have said. Get out there and get busy with stuff that'll take your mind off of her. After awhile you should be fine. They say time heals all wounds. I've found that to be a fairly accurate statement.
Karl
