I dunno what to say to all of you. The car is coming off the classifieds though. Selling it would just be another way I'd be telling her that this is something I can fix just as easily as my car. She isn't a car, I can't just tweak a couple things and expect our relationship to run right again. The car is going on the back burner for a while except for obligations as they come up and for when I know I'm not taking something away from our relationship.
I know someone said something about building the car for an entire web group and that being a driving force. You couldn't have been more right, I wanted the car for myself but I think more importantly I was working on it for everyone else's approval and envy. I just wanted to finally have something that no-one else had and that every one would envy in some way. Group approval is a powerful force, but now that I'm at the point I am, I can see that even as much as everyone here means to me, if I don't get the love from my wife, I'm missing out on the most important thing!
I can't beleive the amount of support you all are giving me. It has really been great and for those of you that I know personally and/or have contacted me outside this thread offering to help even if you didn't know me, I can't thank you enough!
Things are very rough right now, but I think we are at least on some type of path to resolve the situation in one way or another. At least now we will know for sure what the outcome is and was meant to be. Wish me luck!
Thanks with all sincerity!!!!!!!!!
Rick
