Hi Rick, I just saw this thread for the first time today, and I must admit, this is very familiar territory for me as well.
My car got in the way of one of my previous relationships, and my g/f at the time gave me an ultimatum. Her or the car. I'm still driving my Mystique...
I've had a few episodes as well with my current g/f, and we've gotten through them. I will go with the flow on this one, and say keep the car.
Try to moderate your time spent on the car, and with your wife.
All my best goes out to you and your better half, and I am sure with a little co-operation and understanding on both your parts, you can resolve this amicably, without resorting to any extremes.
Also, Rick, you know where to reach me if you feel the need to get a load off your chest. I think you will find no shortage of friends here willing to listen and be there for you.
