Well, this is such the wrong board for this anywayz, but, I did find this:
http://www.contour.org/cgi-ubb/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic&f=22&t=000360&p= (these searches take a looooong time parsing thru each board).
And just to (overly) clarify, the connector is on the passenger side, near the center of the car.
