Unlimited_Boost, let me try and summarize the answer's to your questions.
1) Definately go with an engineering degree rather that an engineering technology degree. The particular field (Mechanical, Electrical, etc.) is up to you. The majority of Automtive Engineers are probably ME, but I'm sure there are quite a few with different degrees. Most schools teach the same basics, but the resources and expectations vary with each program/school. By going with a more theory oriented engineering curriculum rather than an eng. tech. you will have more options in the future.
2) Everybody had a favorite school, and every engineering school is one of the best! IMHO, how good the school is depends on how good of a student you are capable of being. The stronger the academic, the stonger your competition will be. Pick something affordable, with lots of resources, and a good atmosphere (social and academic) that suits you.
3) Co-op or intern! I cannot stress this enough. This will make getting a job easier, it will help you decide were you want to go, and best of all you get paid!