Well, the way I see it, her popping out kids like a Pez dispenser is as much her responsibility as anyone else's. She had choices to use contraception (including NFP) or not to have sex with Rusty (I don't think I could have done that one ). The religious beliefs she espouses in adulthood are also her responsibility.

Rusty may have been better about not having the last child, but it appears he mended his ways about the other things over the years.

It doesn't seem like the health system failed Andrea in this case. It did it's thing, and she went contrary to it. There is only so much power they have, and personally, I don't want them to have any more.


Brad "Diva": 2004 Mazda 6s 5-door, Volcanic Red Rex: 1988 Mazda RX-7 Vert, Harbor Blue.