Tony2000 and ProjectSho thanks a bunch Problem Solved
Shifts perfect no more 1-2 bang. $24.78 el cheapo fixo. After the worst problem (clunky shifting and slipping) is now fixed.
I did my first step of diagnosis on the whine. Stuck it in Nuetral and reved. Its coming from the engine, Probably overdue for an oilchange
I'll do that tomorrow before I leave for ocean city. Maybe i'll get lucky this weekend too