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I'm not to sure why I should be posting this with all the good post up but you guys seem to decent with advice. Anyway, on to the story...

My best friend(male) and I have been friends for quiet awhile now, since 6th grade. We have had are own ways of approaching women, his being more flirtatious and sneaky, as in not as noticable with others people around. And mine being more obvious, suave, with down to earth attitude.

Now the stituation is that a few weeks ago my best friend(19), my sister(16), her best friend(16), and I went to Q-Zar, a laser tag game, pretty fun actually. Well we had fun went home to sleep off the excercise. Next thing I know, my friend is hanging out at my house a lot more often with my sisters friend over. With that I see him flirting with her. At first it wasn't bad. But then she found out his cell phone number and the text messages started fly in. Most of the time he says they are kinda stupid but this is all he tells me.

My sisters best friend is pretty good looking for her age and she is very mature. She into drama and theater and likes to play video games every once and awhile. A pretty hard find in my books. Also I help with transportation aspect between the movies and her house. Well, today my friend tells that he is going to Barnes and Noble(her favorite bookstore) with her tommorrow and plan out the rest of the day from there. Her parents said it was okay and she said it would be a good idea to run it by me and my sister to see how we would react. She has done this many times with her guy friends, but I can help myself and think what could happen i.e. a serious relationship.

I said it was okay as long as he didn't do anything. I'm not sure what my sister said. Now, I somewhat dislike the fact this is happening. I don't want this to turn into a bigger thing and definately don't want my friend doing anything with my sisters friend.

What should I do? I'm thinking just let it play out and see what happends. My friend is leaving on a month long vaction around the states on sunday, so if he's going to try anything its going to happend tommorrow. I just think its puppy love, where she thinks its awesome to date someone older.

If anyone reads this (and responds with decent advice) thanks for your time.

-KJ