ahh I found it. The buckle I needed was under the bench seat. It was the tiny one w/out the big red release button After I popped out the seat I saw what I needed. Since my car is strickly a one passanger(sometimes a two passanger w/ the g/f) I dedcided to tuck all the buckles under the bench for a cleaner look. If need be I can pop them out but I doubt I will any time soon. In all the cars I've owned no one has ever sat in the back.
Thanks guys!