Laura....you know I'm a good resource for you.
For the friction modifier I believe it was a Ford part number XL-7 or something. If you ask for "old stinky" when you say friction modifier the parts guy should know. Be sure to use at most 1/2 the bottle.
As for the clutch, yes it is hydraulic. The bleeder is on the bell housing rougly under the WP pully area.
Any other questions?