"also, another thing i noticed is that, before the fix, the rpms would go up to like 1500 when i first started the car with a cold engine. now it's not doing that anymore... is this ok?"
Yes.

"i went with the smaller of the 2 suggestions for the SVT fix. should i try the bigger hole or just wait for the computer to learn more new positions for the IAC?"
The 500 RPM should fine.


"Always do the cheap and easy ones first." 1996 V6 ATX 96K miles