I'm very sorry that you lost a friend, I will pray for his family and for his friends.

As for the person driving the EVO, he has taken away something precious that can never be replaced. He may not know it yet, but even if your friend's family forgives him, he will never forgive himself. He may very well spend a good portion of the rest of his life having nightmares replaying the accident in slow motion, and wishing he was the one killed and not your friend.