To let you know how I somewhat understand how you are feeling. After the Contour sat in the driveway, dead, for about six months, I finally looked into what could actually be wrong. Instead of the trans, it looks like all that is gone is the driver's CV shaft. Now with me poking around, I realise how much I actually miss the car. It was the most enjoyable vehicle I have ever owned (handling) which is why I am so excited to get the Cougar on the road. I cant even imagine completely how you would feel with the insane amount of time (and probably blood and new cuss words) that you have put into yours.
Take it out back and cover it up. Let your anger subside and get back to the project after you have had a chance to cool off a little. You dont need to do what I did and end up replacing an enjoyable car because of something stupid, like a CV shaft that can be replaced for free under warranty.
Dont part her out, you will kick yourself for it.
