I thought the same thing about the headlights when I saw the pictures.
The car looks good!

The interior looks new, you keep it very nice.

To lower it...BAT kit, scroll down to page 13.
BAT You could go with the Koni/Eibach set up but it costs more than the BAT kit. Not sure how much you want to spend but the BAT kit is a very good value.
Thanks for posting the pictures! Your tour is very nice.