heres a quick fuel pump trick...
with your wife in the car and you under it.
have her turn the key to start and hold it, while you hit the bottom of the tank in the center.
you might need to use a rubber mallet or something similar.
this might jog the fuel pump enough to get it to work.
then you will know its the fuel pump.

*done this many times to get cars in the garage to replace the pump.
even had to pull the rear seat and reach behind me while driving to bang on the tank of one car so it would keep runing long enough for me to get it inthe garage.

but yo said the car isnt even cranking right?
if its not cranking the fuel pump wouldnt matter.

NY State Trooper: So what makes your car so special to have SVT all over it? Me: Er...It was made by Fords SPECIAL Vehicle Team?