Originally posted by Identity Crisis K.H:
Originally posted by Andy W.:
Also, if he showed you up that easy, you may not be appreciating her enough.

-Andy




Very true. Try to think back when was the last time you did something really nice for her.




To clarify, and not to sound shallow, my wife knows full well that I am not a big Valentine's Day kinda guy. In the same breath, I did get her a nice card, and cards from the kids to her, along with a 1 hour massage gift card to her favorite spa. I am not a flowers kind of guy though. As far as me doing good and nice stuff for her...every morning before I head off to work I leave her a nice note thanking her for things and wishing her a nice day and letting her know any issues I may have had while she was at work the night before. I hug and kiss her in the morning before I go, and while I am home I make sure to do as much of the housework (dishes, laundry, sweeping, etc.) that I can. Now I know that this is just what your supposed to do, alot of couples don't help each other out as much as we do, especially when we are working opposite shifts 4 days out of the week. I always let her know she is beautiful and a great Mother, and showing my true feelings is neer a problem. I think we have a great marriage with wonderful children and I would hate to see this scenario be more than a bump in the road.


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