let's clear up a few things. The original flowers came on valentine's day. They were brought home and placed in the kitchen unnoticed by me since we had approx. 6 or 7 different vases of flowers around for the kids from the parents and g-parents etc. There were 11 flowers he told her to take the flowers and look in the mirror and she would notice the 12 most beautiful things in the world. Good line, now the guy has 1-up'ed me twice on v-day. I didn't know that these flowers were from him until they were almost dead and being thrown out, then the wife drops the bomb on me about them. I did leave out the fact that he asked her to the Prom too (he is an 18 year old senior in H.S.). She declined, yet I think in the midst of the "flattery" she forgot to put her foot down and put herself in the same situationa as if it were me doing the same. She wouldn't tell me his name in fear that I qould rip his heart out, and since I didn't show a whole lot of emotion in the first place she thought I really didn't care which led to less communication in our marriage. That brings us to NOW, with all of this $hit out on the table...I know nothing more has happend, i mean between them, but like I said before...she has allowed it to go too far!! This kid needs a lesson in respect and courtesy, and she will need to let him and others know that this will not fly with her.
I still want to kick his a$$ though.
Sean
