A good fried of mine is in the final stages of divorce because of stuff like this. Here's the situation:
1. Wife isn't happy for various little reasons
2. Wife confides in all her friends on "what do I do about these issues?"
3. Friends tell her to talk to her HUSBAND about these problems.
4. Wife decides to not talk to husband and be cold to him.
5. Wife finds a "friend" at work who is more than willing to "understand" her problems and talk to her.
6. "Friend" at work decides to take advantage of the situation and is more than willing to give her the male attention she isn't getting.
7. Wife decides to sleep with the dude and hide it from her husband for months.
8. Husband is suspicious but gives her the benefit of the doubt.
9. Husband then finds evidence that cheating might be occurring.
10. Husband digs and finds real evidence of cheating.
11. Husband confronts wife and she doesn't deny it.
12. Divorce.
This was such a waste. They where married less than a year before this stuff started happening. The dumbass wife wasn't smart enough to work on her relationship so she just decided to throw it away and get a new one.
It takes a dirty dog to hit on a married woman. That is NO respect. Additionally, your wife is an idiot for playing into it. She needs to put her foot down and pepper spray these [censored] until they get the message.
It isn't innocent fun. You are playing with your marriage here.
