Giving flowers to a married woman at work is borderline sexual harrasment. The MILF comments def are. The problem with both is that if your wife tolerates them, the boys will escalate their attention towards her. Then it will create an uncomfortable work environment for her. She needs to set standards for what is an appropriate way to interact with her, and then keep to them.
Ask her..."are they viewing you as a professional? As an equal?" Or is it more of the cenerfold mentality. Ask her is that they way she wants to be viewed at work. As the office hunnie.
Does she expect to be take seriously, and have her contributions valued? Then she needs to end their verbal games.
