I appreciate the feedback thus far. For the most part I am a very non-jealous individual, so when my wife did start acting a little different about her work place and the such, I did start to question where i stand in the relationship. I do trust her 100%, we'd just be another statistic if I didn't, and that is a 2-way street as far as I know. My first thoughts were to teach this kid a lesson, my best friend ( a cop) kept that from happening thank God. So I finally approached the wife aobut it and it seems like innocent stuff that has been allowed to be taken too far, so my advice to heer will be to squash ita ll together promptly and then I won't hear about it again from her or anyone else.
JaTo--I do like the idea of the empty shotgun shell.
^Thanks again
