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Originally posted by todras:
Wait for the Christmas party and follow him into the bathroom. 
That sounds kinda gay. 
But yeah, like a few others said, take it as a compliment. If you have no trust issues with her at all, then you have nothing to worry about. If your wife didn't think it was out of line then don't stress it. Don't be the over protective/jealous type, because it will get you nowhere in the end. Just pointless fights with your spouse.
I think it's great when someone talks about or looks at my g/f, because you have her and they don't and you get to do this right back at them, 
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Giving flowers to a married woman at work is borderline sexual harrasment. The MILF comments def are. The problem with both is that if your wife tolerates them, the boys will escalate their attention towards her. Then it will create an uncomfortable work environment for her. She needs to set standards for what is an appropriate way to interact with her, and then keep to them.
Ask her..."are they viewing you as a professional? As an equal?" Or is it more of the cenerfold mentality. Ask her is that they way she wants to be viewed at work. As the office hunnie.
Does she expect to be take seriously, and have her contributions valued? Then she needs to end their verbal games.
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Originally posted by CSVT1214:
Originally posted by todras:
Wait for the Christmas party and follow him into the bathroom.
That sounds kinda gay.
If your idea of reach out and touch someone is a reach around.
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Originally posted by Pudmunkie:
Originally posted by xchang:
Um... hire me.
Chang you can come to dexter and intimidate some of my GF co-workers. HAHA they've probably never seen an asian man. Let alone an asian man that could topple cities!
LOL! I can defintely help. The only other that can topple me is Yao, but he is a brother from another mother.
As far as your cop friend keeping youfrom cracking heads. THat is a good friend to have. When you do confront your wife about it, don't be an *** about it, just make sure she understands that your uncomfortable about the situation. Make the other guys looks like *** and not yourself and you'll come out ahead.
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NY State Trooper: So what makes your car so special to have SVT all over it?
Me: Er...It was made by Fords SPECIAL Vehicle Team?
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You should call in Chuck Noris for a little round-house action!
Originally posted by Chickens:
Religion can't do much for ashholes (unless you are an alterboy)
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Originally posted by XKontour98:
You should call in Chuck Noris for a little round-house action!
Chuck Norris is too busy for games. Just mention his very name and all wrong doers will cower in fear.
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Originally posted by loggerbomb:
someone needs to calm down and stop being so jealous and insecure. (pudmunkie)
As for that you really have no point of reference for the situation or my relationship so you cant really judge. So ill just ignore what you've said.
You see how you take it when your girlfriends co-workers hit on your girlfriend every day, Continously tell her that they will beat your ass so you are out of the picture kay?
Im not a jelous guy, we allow each other all the freedom and trust and I know she wont ever do anything. I do have issues with people threatening me . I cant be insecure, I know im top [censored] 
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A good fried of mine is in the final stages of divorce because of stuff like this. Here's the situation:
1. Wife isn't happy for various little reasons
2. Wife confides in all her friends on "what do I do about these issues?"
3. Friends tell her to talk to her HUSBAND about these problems.
4. Wife decides to not talk to husband and be cold to him.
5. Wife finds a "friend" at work who is more than willing to "understand" her problems and talk to her.
6. "Friend" at work decides to take advantage of the situation and is more than willing to give her the male attention she isn't getting.
7. Wife decides to sleep with the dude and hide it from her husband for months.
8. Husband is suspicious but gives her the benefit of the doubt.
9. Husband then finds evidence that cheating might be occurring.
10. Husband digs and finds real evidence of cheating.
11. Husband confronts wife and she doesn't deny it.
12. Divorce.
This was such a waste. They where married less than a year before this stuff started happening. The dumbass wife wasn't smart enough to work on her relationship so she just decided to throw it away and get a new one.
It takes a dirty dog to hit on a married woman. That is NO respect. Additionally, your wife is an idiot for playing into it. She needs to put her foot down and pepper spray these [censored] until they get the message.
It isn't innocent fun. You are playing with your marriage here.
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If your wife isn't sending clear signals that she's taken, then you need to address it with her. Comments are one thing, gifts are another. Also, how long did it take you to find out and who told you. If it was by the end of the day and your wife, I think your fine.
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The problem with America is stupidity.
I'm not saying there should be a capital punishment
for stupidity, but why don't we just take the safety
labels off of everything and let the problem solve itself?
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